Did you know that 98% of the time a person’s failure is because of his or her lack of effort and lack of knowledge rather than the home business industry like so many rookie business owners like to claim?
Over the weekend, I was doing some studying on ways that people can become greater in life. If you know anything about me, you know that I’m the one person in the home business industry that defends the people that don’t make a nickel and I stand up and fight to find ways to remove the shackles from these people so they can go out there in the land of the free and become successful home business owners. While I was doing some research, I found three easy-to-use ways that anybody can use to create a successful home business. I like to call them my three little home business success tips.
The first one that I will cover I like to call the DNA excuse. The DNA excuse is something we all tell ourselves that actually stops us from achieving success and reaching levels we never thought possible. If you’ve ever had a talk with somebody in the home business industry and really listened to the words that came out of their mouths on why they are not succeeding, you would most likely hear sentences and words that made excuses about their DNA. For example, I was talking to a great lady the other day and she was asking me for advice on succeeding in home business. I asked her what she thought her biggest problem was and she told me it was because nobody in her family has ever been good at sales. After much talk with this lady I told her that she’s using her past to dictate her future. She thinks that because everybody in her family prior to her was no good at sales, that’s why she’s failing. I call it the DNA excuse. There are many more examples, but I’ll keep it simple for now. My advice is to not let your past DNA get in the way of your success.
As I was sitting around really pondering this over the weekend, I realized another important factor that HOLDS PEOPLE BACK FROM SUCCESS IS what others have told them they can do or cannot do. Several times I’ve had conversations with people in the home business industry and I’ve heard them say so and so said this doesn’t work, or I’ve heard them say they heard this from this person. I like to call this not only an EXCUSE to validate their failure, but I like to call it a mind virus. A virus is something that is planted in a subject or thing then it infiltrates the subject or thing and then it spreads. Many people in general not only in the home based business industry operate with this excuse. In fact, I feel this is the main killer for our dreams. Somebody tells us one thing and it then gets installed in our minds and we then in return spread it to others. It’s a big virus of nonsense. It’s all limiting beliefs. I like to say that 1 + 1 is only one if you believe it is. In order to create success you must change your mind and understand that what you hear from others is not always the best advice and for your best interests. Next time somebody tells you something, question their source: you’ll throw them for a loop.
The last of the three is what I call The Brain Excuse. Many times we talk with people whether it be in the home business industry or your best friend and we hear them basically tell themselves how dumb they are or how uneducated they are. You’ll hear people say, “I can’t do this because I’m not that good with numbers.” Right off the bat this person has just given themselves a reason to fail. Little do they know that the brain is like plastic and it can remold and mold itself all the time. If we could just stop stopping ourselves by telling ourselves how uneducated and dumb we are then we would all start to understand how much easier things start to become. It’s almost like our world starts to tilt our way. The next time you hear yourself getting ready to cut yourself down think twice because it will do you more harm than good I promise.
In conclusion, I feel the reason for so many of our failures is the fact that we need to make so many excuses of why we do or don’t do something. My advice is stop letting others tell you what you can do and what you can’t do and step into a place where you’re following your desires and not somebody else’s desires. The home business industry is only tough if you think it’s tough. Don’t let excuses of your past and what others tell you can do or can’t do hold you back.